Debunking The Trying Theory

Let’s look at that again. ”Debunking the try theory . I hear this often, ”well I tried”. Now just to share I’ve said it often “I tried”. Uh huh

We have, well I was always told and once believed. If you try something new, be it challenging or easy you are not a failure if you stop.

Well I’m calling BS on that one . WHY? Because I see it totally different. If you stop because it really wasn’t for you then okay as long ad you made that decision honestly. Confusing, no. Through challenges I’ve learned I stopped for reasons of no reasons. Again a bit of confusion.

Stopping because you didn’t want to put in the effort and time because you wanted easy doesn’t count as trying, you never started. Stopping because others couldn’t see your vision or know your goals is not trying. Stopping because life threw a curve ball is not trying. Stopping because you were needing your friends to be on board is not trying. I’m guilty of giving way to all of these and a few more.

Further evaluation of me, made me aware I hadn’t tried several things I once had as a goal or goals. I never started what I did try was finding excuses one after another and labeled the excuses as ”I tried”. I have learned it takes action, tenacity, consistency and believing in yourself, knowing what you want.

So beginning today, head high, eyes and action on your goals and debunk ” I tried”. Instead be a warrior of your goals.

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