Understanding Boundaries in Relationships All Relationships

What Made You Do That

I Just Want To Know

Somedays I am like a wind at high speed when people make statements I am unable to relate to, or just don’t care to indulge in the conversation because of negativity, too petty or a good one that is true but ignored “It ain’t (yep said ain’t) my business.

How much energy is given when you stop and get into a negative conversation. Me my energy is drained, I have to really think where is this going?. Do I really care (most of the time it is NO). How Be Ever (I use to hear my grandmother make that phrase- Love and miss you Beulah). If you are trying to get me to co-sign on a best friend or a family member I am close to I am raising all types of red flags. STOP. You are entering an area that is guarded. We don’t vibe on that frequency and WHY would you ATTEMPT to destroy a relationship or cause a conflict.

I know this blog is a bit confusing because I am trying hard not to discuss what actually occurred just throwing out occurrences and asking. A person’s action can affect your long term association with them in an ATTEMPT TO cause a problem. If there is a celebration PLEASE Let’s Enjoy. Muscle flexing and negative attitude gets you no where. Trying to humiliate a family member or and friend should not make you feel good. Trying to appease others that are not there to honestly support you is not a good look.

Being true to YOURSELF is a #1 priority. Love those who love you. There is no price tag, friendship nomination or acceptance in LOVE. If I or anyone I am in association with (besties, family, friends) Love you we do LOVE you. BUT we will not be abused by it. Try not to take advantage of that love. Don’t disrespect that love. And always remember (speaking for myself); I can LOVE you from a distance and never interact with you again.

The what does it mean is I am trying to understand your behavior. And I really want to know WHAT made you think crossing boundaries make for a memorable celebration