Stop Erasing Your Goals

It’s Time to Shift from “Appeasing” to “Pleasing”

Are you the person who constantly finds themselves “appeasing” the world around them, or are you actively “pleasing” yourself?

If we are being completely honest, continuing to appease everyone else means you are lost. It feels like moving around in a dark room with only a tiny flicker of light to guide you. The longer you maintain this behavior putting your own needs last to keep the peace or satisfy others—the dimmer that light will become.

It is time to allow your light to shine.

I cannot tell you exactly what that looks like for you, nor would I try to. You are the driver of your own life, and the growth actions you choose must be entirely your own. But if you need a place to start, I can highly recommend beginning with kindness toward yourself.

Look at it this way: if you want to continue to appease, you might as well get a massive eraser out.

Go ahead and erase your fitness goals. Erase your personal and relationship aspirations. Those professional and entrepreneurial dreams you’ve been writing down? Yes, erase those too. Because you cannot appease the crowd and build a legacy at the same time. Something has to give.

Otherwise, it’s time to turn it up.

Shift your focus to PLEASING YOU. Bring your own new, improved, and self-honoring actions on board today. Define what success looks like on your own terms, and take the first step toward it.

I am in your corner, and I am cheering you on to choose you.