COMPARISON Can Affect YOUR Goal

This exactly when we compare too much.  Okay I’m not saying not to compare at all, because it is human, but we must know the limits and exactly when to STOP. Working out is challenging enough but when we as I have to call myself out so many times look at others and their resultsContinue reading “COMPARISON Can Affect YOUR Goal”

How Strong and Focused Am I

First of all I want to say I am strong, but I was unaware until recently. This all begin near a month ago.  I had my well woman’s exam and which also included a BMD (bone mass density) due to previous medication I took years ago.  Every test came back normal, well almost EXCEPT theContinue reading “How Strong and Focused Am I”

Staying Committed

My fitness journey has hills, mountains, winding roads, slopes, gravel and smooth surface.  I encounter them all and my lesson which I have to focus on is “Stay Committed “. Having a relationship with myself, just slain for knowing your mindset and your weakness; I know mine most of them when it comes to workingContinue reading “Staying Committed”

Sidelines

  I recently was conversing with a friend and she voiced concern of having negative feedback in her goal setting with several friends.  I listened to her and allowed her to shed tears, curse, and later begin to come to some decision.  She wants to begin a fitness routine and was told several reasons whyContinue reading “Sidelines”

The Past, The Present & The Future ME

It’s all about me for now on my fitness journey. My Past – I have experienced  weight fluctuations, size fluctuations.  I’ve experienced almost every eating disorder known.  I was concerned and didn’t know how to handle when I was disliked by family, friends and yes even foes, I thought I had to appease so many. Continue reading “The Past, The Present & The Future ME”

I Didn’t Know Changing the Sequence will Change My Weights

  I knew exactly what day it was  and I looked at the calendar to follow which muscles would be at work today.  I compared the previous week weights and thought I would increase my weights but I was in for a BIG AWAKENING. The sequence was changed.  Okay I thought  and was so wrongContinue reading “I Didn’t Know Changing the Sequence will Change My Weights”

Supporting Others and Neglecting Myself

Hi there I’m uncertain if I have used the correct title on this blog, not at all.  Simply put I am not neglecting myself by all means but I am neglecting my support. As I travel and it is travel on my fitness journey, I see how so many of my friends, family, coworkers andContinue reading “Supporting Others and Neglecting Myself”

Workout Demon

Do you know him or her? What? You never met? Really? Well, the demon was disguised because you have met.  Yes you know when you hear, “you deserve a few days off” and you are just lazy, upset with the flow of the day, energy drained from dealing with BS, not that you really needContinue reading “Workout Demon”

The People You Love Can Hurt/ Deter You

I know I am not the only one who has and will experience this.  Family members, spouses, daughters, sons, brothers, sisters, you get it and YES they sometimes say things they hurt us on any journey be it physical as mine is or goal, accomplishment at work. For me it is my fitness journey.  IContinue reading “The People You Love Can Hurt/ Deter You”

Changing My Routine for ME

I am in my second week of changing my routine and not just for my workouts.  I read a lot of motivational self-help and inspiring books.  I have also learned in my readings I am unable to apply all I am reading because it does not apply to me well not at the moment butContinue reading “Changing My Routine for ME”