Being number one to yourself, I know it sounds a bit selfish, but is it? I too thought for many years this was selfish, however I have learned difference.
Okay, this does not mean just shop for yourself, never volunteer, or give gifts to others. Being number one to yourself means to take care of you. When you give care, self-love to yourself , you will as I am extending a higher love and care to others because you just feel good and it is different good.
Being number one to yourself can be a long or short list depends on your life style, health and goals but I will list a few things: Exercise, nutrition, medical care if necessary, pamper yourself with manicure, pedicure, facials, massages, sleeping adequate hours, family time, date nights and the list is longer.
Being number one to yourself will prepare you for the challenges of life and assist you as it has me in positive mindset to assist others and make decisions of empowerment.
It’s okay to choose a time, day to be Number One to YOU. You so much deserve it!!!!
This was last week, to begin I am usually a bit more organized and 90% on top of my meal planning. However when it is slow at work and I am stretching out my time I get a bit hyper. Not bad well, yes, if you complete task ahead of time and there is time left.
I had my breakfast, lunch and snack. Breakfast consumed AM snack gone and I was hyper, beyond and I decided to try just one or what should have been none. I had one Reese’s miniature cup. Yum so good but then I remembered I had put out more than one type not just the normal chocolate peanut butter cup, but there was dark chocolate and white chocolate. Honestly the flavor is almost the same but me being bored tried another and another and yes you get the pic. Before I knew it I had not one but eight wrappers on my desk.
I had allowed myself to be tempted by myself, no one else to blame, just me. Shamefully I wrapped the wrappers in paper towel, tossed it in the garbage, and did what I should have prior to overdosing on a chocolate peanut butter rush. I swallowed WATER. Yes water and lots of it. Was I craving Reese’s, no I was hyper and bored.
I was unable to rewrite my sugar consumption however I became knowledgeable on craving and bored. Usually my cravings are satisfied with a few bites, but my overindulgence when I am bored is limitless. I MUST get better. I was extremely happy when my next infusion patient came, work.
I know avoid the snacks, maybe but I order them for the patients I infuse and Reese’s is not the only chocolate or snack available. I purchase snacks according to the patients. The worse thing is to order a lot of healthy and good snacks you have to toss because no one, well maybe a few will eat.
I know my behavior when I am bored and should not allowed myself to be tempted. I am vowing to remind myself of this. How about you? Really do you eat for nutrition or is your intake affected sometimes by LIFE? You are normal just evaluate and place a system to avoid the extreme intake.
Getting my fight on is not physical but mental and well yes it is physical in my mind. When I accomplish a goal and I remember the many whispers or spoken out I thought so looking or waiting for a quit or stop.
There are times, of many not just myself but you and so many others experience the why, is this good for you, no stop while you are ahead, don’t do it, or I wouldn’t be able to do it, or the giant. Uh-huh I thought so, which comes after you stop towards a goal or slow down to revise a goal due to a hiccup so you can achieve your goal.
On my fitness journey I have heard so many positive encouragements, but every now and then those negatives will stand out when we hit a plateau or need to revise our daily lives. I know ignore the negatives and trust me they shout out loud but believe they are fewer than we think it’s just the noise. The noise makes my fight stronger, toward my goals.
This is my fitness and health journey, yes this time is about, who, huh, yep IT’S ABOUT ME. If I slow down, don’t cheer me on with “I thought so”, I ‘m about to shut you up because I am revising a stronger plan to follow. Please back up, I don’t want your consolation, I’m not out of gas, I am refueling with a larger tank. That’s okay you did not see it because again It’s about me.
Long pause, join me in mind thought, progression, goal setting and achievements, let’s turn the side line of Uh huh I thought so, to YEAH YOU’RE A CHAMPION I KNEW IT. Maybe they too will remember and begin a new positive goal in their life.
This past week-end, specifically Saturday, I did nothing, well nothing productive. I did look at movies on HallMark yes that was it.
I woke up early 5:30 AM, and begin to evaluate my week and was not happy, I made excuses and more excuses and then I used to age thing. Yes, that’s it I am older and I am….. blah blah blah. I was satisfied with that. Satisfied and then the guilt set in.
Why did you not plan out the week, meal prep, and a few other things I neglected. I was upset at a few things that had happened at work and being dedicated, leading in areas, I was over looked on a few things with a personal apology because it was too late to change.
What? Why? And How long?, do you allow situations to affect yourself, your values and YOU. How long?, I am not sure about you but for me it was for this time, because it may happen again, one day. One day too long. I had to evaluate myself and shake it off. Yes shake it off. There are things we can change but the past sometimes gives us strength.
I am stronger than I was on Saturday, I have reclaimed MYSELF as well as taking my experience as a growth and tool in life to use.
Tears dried, focus on point and my life has resumed Yes so Sunday I worked out harder than ever, prayed for my new growth because of the past and feel GREAT. I gained in many ways (not weight) in one day.
Time to do what? Why?. I have read several motivation books from the greatest and there is one thing that is common. To create change a habit, develop a new habit you must give it time. This time does not readily say Success but to get us (me, you and all others wanting a change) it puts us on the path to our success.
The time does not mean one day this week in 3 weeks apply the change and maybe 4 months later. The commonality is 3 weeks, yes create that habit for 3 weeks. In three weeks you will develop other habits to propel you to accomplishment but you must begin. Will you immediately note change?, yes some big, some small but it is change.
To three weeks of unleashing more greatness within and about you, I know you got it “GREATNESS’